Building where Bat Cave was
I had my first conflict in Iraq. On the scale of conflicts it was towards the insignificant category. It had a significant impact on me though. I had gone running this particular evening and so had need of a shower. I took my needed shower and was nice clean and refreshed. It was around midnight chow time and I was a little hungry, so I went to use the potty, washed my hands, and headed off to get something to eat. On the way into the chow hall there is a hand washing station. There was one guy washing his hands there. Since I was sparkling clean and had just washed my hands, I bypassed the said station. Apparently this was not well liked by the person who was there washing his hands. He felt it was necessary to comment to me that 'they have a hand washing station for a reason' with a whole load of attitude. I am not a conflict oriented person by nature, so I attempted to explain that I had just washed my hands before I got there. This was not sufficient explanation as I found out that 'there are still germs'. At this point I was a little perturbed. Being that I am not a quick witted and clever fellow, I did the only thing that came to mind, I asked him in a stern voice what his name was, as though that would put him in his place. He returned the favor and endowed me with a new title in the process, 'Mr. Civilian'.
Coincidently we happened to sit across from each other in the chow hall, which didn't help me forget the incident. As I was brooding over this attack on my sanitary state of being, I kept thinking of what I could have said to my attacker that would have been witty and clever, had it been said immediately following the attack. I would have given him the title of 'Mr. Sanitation' and invited him to inspect other areas of my body for cleanliness. That was the best one I came up with. I knew that my anger was ridiculous and I kept thinking of the verse in the bible that says, 'the anger of man does not accomplish the righteousness of God'. I hope that if I run into Mr. Sanitation again that I will be able to be kind and generous to him. Here are the verses I read the next morning that really put me in my place.
1 Corinthians 4:12-13
"...when we are cursed, we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure it; when we are slandered, we answer kindly..."
That is the life I strive to live. This incident was a little set back from that standard, but hopefully it will be a lesson learned.


